What is escalation?
Going thru a window. Imagine a window and there is a girl in the otehr side.
Within the interaction as it starts off there are escalation moments with this window opened and what she expects is that you go thru that window.
She expects you to escalate, to tae it to the next level.
If for some reason you don¿t take it to the next level, she gets bored.
A lot of guys make the mistake of being in an interaction and they feel like “it’s going well”
Eventualy she is going to be like “where is this going to go”